relationship 2 ....

I have been thinking much lately, maybe that's why that i have been very active in blogging to express my thoughts. I don't know why suddenly i've been thinking a lot, not sure if it's the 20s crisis. Is there such thing as late 20s crisis? I bet others who read will curse me what on earth that you're on late 20s crisis stage. ckckck...

I've been thinking about friendship. There are just so many things around our circle of life which is unexplainable. Throughout the stage of our life, we will always get acquaintance with new people and turned to friends. Thus, we will get to know different people from all over the places with different characteristics and personalities in different phases.

There are people that you just can't click as there are no chemistry, but there are people that you'll just click to it since the first day you met. It's like you have a close friend and distant friend or what you so call roommate or housemate category friend. There are also a bunch of pig and dog friends. ckckck..... Usually, we will define in good and close friend or just friend or even an acquaintance. ehehehee.....

The friends we grew up with from kindergarten are different gangs from the one we know in college. By the time we start to work, we will get to know different gang which is our colleagues. As we spend most of our time with them, naturally we just become friends. Did you ever think that they are actually like our family as we spend more time with them than our own family. On average, we spent more time in office which practically supposed to be our main home instead of second home. I'm also glad that i clicked well with my office gang. ^^

Every gang has different lifestyle, naturally we will play different roles depends on which gang we hang out with. i am quite amazing to the way of our interactions. At least for me, when i hang out with my high school friends (which practically we have known each since kindergarten or primary school) and college friends, we will discuss about different thing as there are different point of views and each of us will adapt to it. When it comes to your colleagues, it's another different story and situation. We're just happy to gather around and bitching on others. ckckck...

But the most important thing is how you balance yourself and play the role in different clans. Another crucial thing is not to mixed up your clans as it will crash (it's not a good journey that you'd like to experience).

Getting older makes me more cherished on friendship especially at current stage. you will hardly get to know new friends other than your working environment. Don't get me wrong that i
dislike my work clan. In fact, they are the gang that i hang out a lot with and enjoyed a lot. I care for them. i think it's because we share the same background and life hehehee..... Hanging out with them will just diminished our stress.......

It's just different from when you're in college. You'll get to know so many friends where all your variety of clans started. At this current stage, when you get to know a new friend, you will tend to cherish more. Some might afraid of getting hurt and didn't receive what they expect in return. Well, it's not an investment, and we didn't expect high ROI here. My principle is to burst out and never regret about it as long as you know you have done your best.

As we turn older, time is more precious than ever. Despite of the clans, every moment is a quality of time to me.